Maybe I am an Introvert
Should I be worried?
The question “Are you an introvert or an extrovert?” has been debated every day since the dawn of time. Everyone has their definition, but it’s essential to be aware of your strengths and weaknesses, as with all things in life.
In today’s society, we often view extroverts as the more ‘normal’ personality type — the popular people in school who have tons of friends and always have a ball. Though this is not necessarily true…
So, who is an extrovert?
The extrovert is perceived as the more social type who wants to be in the spotlight or on stage. They are known for being extraordinarily talkative and bubbly.
They find it easy to make friends and are usually outgoing.
Extroverts enjoy being around people and have a lot of energy. They’re typically seen as more confident than introverts and wouldn’t mind speaking on stage if asked to. They’re also naturally very good at thinking on their feet.
But when I question myself which one I am?
I would say I am a mix of both.
I find it easy to make friends with people, but I still don’t like to be the center of attention.
When I first started at my new school, I had no idea what to do, where to go, or how things worked, so it was tough to put myself out there. I was scared that people wouldn’t like me because I couldn’t change something about myself.
I eventually gave up on trying to be popular and just became friends with people. It was by far the best decision I could have made.
What does that have to do with introversion?
I used to think that being an introvert was a negative thing, but it isn’t. It’s just not what most people think it is.
You can still be outgoing and talkative if you like, but don’t let other people tell you that you have to be this way.
Introverts are like sponges. They take in everything that happens around them.
They can read people exceptionally well and look at situations from different angles. In fact, they’re more sensitive than extroverts and can become overwhelmed very easily.
Not so good with the small talk? You might be an introvert!
Introverts don’t feel the need to be around other people all the time. They get exhausted by too much social interaction.
This can be a superpower, so build on it!
In my opinion, if you’re a great listener and hate small talk.
Many introverts are capable of excelling in their careers because they’re natural listeners and thinkers.
They enjoy working independently and often have fabulous ideas — but sometimes have trouble putting them into action.
They rely heavily on their inner voice for answers, making them more creative than others with their thoughts.
Introverts are not as loud as extroverts, but that doesn’t mean they’re not smart.
Why you shouldn’t let it bother you:
If you’re an introvert and are bothered by the things other people say about you, don’t let them sink in.
Those people don’t know what introversion really is — they believe it to be the same thing as being anti-social or shy.
So who do you think you are?
